Daughters as bookkeeping entries…

I’ve trained Kenyan youth to hold Crucial Inquiries. A Maasai community in Kenya invited us to address them at one of their monthly gatherings. During the conversation, when one of the men said he was too poor to send his daughter to school, we led an inquiry into his belief that he is poor enough to warrant selling his daughter into marriage. Turns out this one mzee (elder) owns 200 acres of land! It had never occurred to him that his land was a resource. The only resource he was accustomed to counting is livestock.

The main resource the community is trained to see during the dry season–when livestock is dying from lack of food and water–is their unmarried daughters. During this time, daughters occur as a possible bookkeeping entry! They can replace their lost livestock with their unmarried daughter’s dowry and get their “bank” balance reconciled. By having the mzee see that he has other resources–besides his unmarried daughters, he could see a possibility beyond selling his daughter. Once he saw his other resources, he could also see the possibility of sending his daughter to university as well as keeping his livestock alive during the dry season, so he would never again be tempted to sell another daughter.

As we led the mzee in this conversation, the entire community began to see their attachment to the belief that they are poor. Once they actually inquired into their resources, they started organizing their resources in ways that would allow their daughters to go to university. That day, 15 daughters were very happy having escaped forced marriage and Female Genital Mutilation. The fathers were delighted to realize that they are not, and have never been, poor.

Context is decisive. Change the context and behavior changes accordingly.

Satisfaction of a job well done

Hi Nirvana,

george_sleeping.JPG  I hope that you have been doing good for the last 31 weeks we have not been in communication.Am  doing really GREAT. I wish to share with you the achievements, deliverables, miracles and personal goals I have achieved and accomplished. Welcome!

On December last year I spend sometime in Ruiru estate east of Nairobi before I moved to Yatta my home constituency. My thoughts were dancing all over the universe trying to figure out where and what to start.I spend three days in the homestead. On 6th and 7th  Jan this year I made my 1st  appearance to the two community organizations  I had formed the previous year. What was impressing is that people had changed their approach to live from the training I had conducted before I left for the Kilifi trip.The old men made my day when they shared with us how they accumulated money through savings and seedlings sales they made on the onset of the rains.They told us that they paid themselves and out of the dividends  they made wonderful christmas parties for their respective families.They went further and presented to me forty different seedlings to plant in my farm.I was this time prepared a speech that I had to deliver.Members of all ages attended this meeting.We addressed the community development agendas and formed task force committees to follow up with the government offices concerned and other local organizations working in alignment with our agenda.Todate  they have savings  and they are registered  by the Ministry of Gender and Social services.This month they are in the process of applying  for the Poverty eradication loan a program run by the ministry in the office of the Prime minister.

I knew now I needed support  to bringing the youth together and form a youth network that would wake up the whole constituency.I shared with James and soon he joined me from Nakuru.We spend few days with him and brought the idea of having a supporting business while we do this.Soon we started  digital photography and editing.We also did online registration for candidates examination on the government`s wesite.We made good money that kept us moving.I was the marketing personel while James was busy   demonstrating and training the community on ICT and how it can potentially change their lives.The youth were interested in the whole idea but the challenge was that everyone was busy running his/her business.So we thought of  a new strategy of bringing them on board soon it was available for us.I had to join the sand harvesters union which has 80 youths working for it.I registered myself in the union so I got nice access to all of the 80 youths and the entire organization of 300 members.As this was happening I was making discoveries about success and  achieving.I realized that when you take action people to support and events in alignment what you are doing will come along and more importantly on your favour.To be sincere all this time I never lacked.

I love this!The NYC elections comes along.I knew that was the greatest opportunity for me to know how much the community believes in me.So I walk to Chief`s office and picks the nomination papers.After I got the 20 nominee needed by the ministry I return the papers and  launches my campaigns officially in Kwa-ndolo Sub-location.James designed and  produced my posters 48hrs  to election date.Infact I  was the last one to put posters(13 posters).On 18th May I hired a motorbike to the polling station.I was ready for big battle of Sebastian and Josephine who were going for the top seat with me.Good for me I had taken 15 minutes to meditate  and visualize myself as the overall winner that morning.I was going for nothing less than victory.Mary and Princess Nirvana came with the morning bus accompanied by her ladies squad.After the whole process the presiding officer announced me as the overall winner with 51.8% of the total cast votes.I had two times the votes that Josephine had who came second.I made it through the delegate election upto to the Division level.The good news is that Josephine has made it to the national level through my heavy campaigns I did on her favour.The Yatta Youth Movement is going to kick off on 25th of this month and  am invited to join the steering committee courtesy of Josephine.After the electionsto date I have two youth groups working.One does horticulture and the other does goat and poultry keeping coz the climate of the plateau are so favourable.They are all now in the process of getting the youth enterprise fund loans to expand their business.They are no more afraid of trying new things.

To end,I would like to let you know that I`ve been in action.I made a decision to keep myself away from the internet,Tv,Radio and all sorts of Media.I was receiving calls and reading text massages but not returning. I avoided all toxic conversations and made it clear what I really needed.The law of attraction has been working for me.I know the importance of good naming and positive thinking.Am now a computer expert without a college degree.My wife despite of her not joining school on time,she is also clear with what she wants.She is more confident and can address a group of people.Now she leads  the Girls cadet  in our local church.Dennis the Great is now going school,I wish you could see him in the school uniform.He is an amazing instrumentalist who wants to be with all the musical instruments.The Princess is now standing with objects and there is nothing big for her.She is light than her brother used to be.Mary and Dennis have been favoured by the climate and she gets more beautiful everytime.

Finally,thank you so much for bringing this attitudinal software in Kenya.I have mastered the game Nirvana. Abudance is my birthright and having my fare share is becoming a millinionare [around US$12,000] by December 20th this year. I live and alternative thinking lives in me. Forward my love to your family,Sussie,Dieane and whoever you are working together in the Western world in making sure this is reaching all and transforming peoples lives.

Love,

George Kilonzo Sr.

Perfect for African Rural Villages!

http://openfarmtech.org/wiki/Global_Village_Construction_Set is a set of 50 tools/ technologies for building post-scarcity, resilient communities. This innovation truly puts the tools of development into the hands of communities anywhere. Exciting innovation! The founder, Marcin Jakubowski, is now a TED Fellow and received much support at TED2011. Follow here:

http://openfarmtech.org/weblog/

USEFUL TRAVEL SKILLS

Chris Guillebeau regularly serves up inspired blogging in his Art of Non-Conformity: Unconventional Strategies for Life, Work and Travel website. From today’s entry:

Second, learn to accept that not everyone has the same logic as you.

You might assume that logic is universal, since it is supposedly based on facts instead of opinions. But you would be wrong, as travelers inevitably discover, and the sooner you learn that logic is inseparably tied to culture and context, the easier your journeys will be.

In some countries people will give you the wrong directions to a place rather than tell you they don’t know how to get there. Does this make sense to you? To me, it doesn’t. If I don’t know how to help someone, that’s what I’ll say. But not everyone thinks like me, and in some cultures, it is embarrassing to say you can’t help someone, so better to give the wrong answer than none at all. [I’m thinking, “World Bank.”]

Speaking of help, in some cases people will offer to help you because they want something from you; other times people will go far out of their way to help you while repeatedly refusing any reward. In some cases you may think a problem is small only to find out it is insurmountable (and naturally, the opposite is true). In some cases “no” means “ask three times first.”

How do you learn to interpret different situations and relate them to what is true to you? Well, experience is the best teacher. Unlike waiting, interpreting culture does get easier over time. But first you must understand that logic is hardly scientific.


Cleansing moment of clarity - ID Statesman Commentary

Foreign aid won’t help Haiti change its course

Jonah Goldberg Commentary
Idaho Statesman
January 16, 2011

Ninety-five percent of the debris from the Haitian earthquake one year ago hasn’t been moved.

In other words, billions of dollars later, with none other that Bill Clinton serving as the foreman for a massive international cleanup and reconstruction effort, most of the country pretty much looks exactly the way it did when dust and screams still filled the air.

Except of course, for all of the tent cities.

More than a million people remain homeless. The good news? The Red Cross is building 300 semi-permanent wood homes. That would be sufficient if they could each serve a family of 3,300 people, semi-permanently.

To get a sense of Haiti’s dysfunction, Fox News’ Steve Harrigan reports that some 64 brand-new trucks donated after the earthquake by the Unites States to be used by aid organizations remain parked at the airport. Apparently nobody will pay the steep import tax on the vehicles, so they sit idle, overgrown with weeds.

Even before the earthquake, Haiti was not only the poorest nation in the Western hemisphere, it was one of the few nations in the world to get poorer over the last 50 years. And this is despite the fact it has had some 10,000 international aid organizations working there for decades.

As I’ve written before, one of Haiti’s biggest problems is that it has a culture of poverty. Some cultures add value, some don’t. For instance, a low-skilled Mexican worker becomes 10 to 20 times more productive simply by crossing the border into the United States. It’s not that there aren’t entrepreneurs or hard workers in Haiti, but the system holds them down rather than unleashes them.

Most of the wealth of any society rests in what economists call “intangible capital”–not the stuff of gold mines and factories, but the laws, knowledge and customs that define a given society. Social planners love to invoke the Marshall Plan, whereby America helped rebuild Western Europe after World War II, as proof that foreign aid can create prosperity almost overnight. What is left out of the discussion is that while Europe’s roads and bridges may have been smashed, its intangible capital remained relatively intact.

You can hardly say the same thing about Haiti, which has seen its storehouse of intangible capital devalued for generations. Many ambitious Haitians of means leave the country. Worse, those who stay home are thwarted when they try to break through the cycle of indisputably well-meaning agencies.

In a reported essay for Slate, Maura R. O’Connor asks, “Does International Aid Keep Haiti Poor?” That’s a tougher question than it sounds, but it’s sure as hell clear international aid has done nothing to make Haiti rich.

Aid seems to be a tourniquet on a mortal wound. Take the tourniquet off and the bleeding will get dangerously worse. Leave it on and the would can never be treated.

O’Connor writes that Haitians increasingly see the foreign-aid industry as exactly that, an industry. “There is a vicious paradigm to it: If everything is OK, the NGO has no mission. Maybe that begs some questions,” George Sasine, a businessman and  president of the Haitian Association of Industrialists, told Slate.

For instance, American agricultural aid keeps millions of Haitians from starvation or malnourishment. But thanks to the “Bumpers Amendment”–named for former Arkansas Democratic Sen. Dale Bumpers–we forbid any agricultural aid for crops that would compete with those of our own farmers. So Haiti, which could grow rice or sugar quite easily, grows mangoes and lettuce. Never mind that sugar subsidies in the U.S. are an economic, environmental and political scandal in their own right.

O’Connor writes that the overwhelming sentiment among Haitians themselves, according to surveys, is for the country to break free of the international aid community’s embrace. They will still want help, but they’re sick of having the aid “process” run out of New York treat Haitians like minor variables in a spreadsheet.

It is tempting to argue that benign neglect alone is the answer. But benign neglect amidst such chaos, including a cholera epidemic, probably wouldn’t be all that benign.

Still, you have to ask: How many more decades of “help” making things worse do we need before it’s time to take off the tourniquet?

JonahsColumn@aol.com

Barefoot Entrepreneurs and Social Change Agents

The following is a Tweet from today’s TEDxChange hosted by Melinda Gates. The speaker, Mechai Viravaidya, gave one of the most inspiring talks about large-scale behavior change:

@ideasforafrica #TEDxChange - “Poor people are business people without business training & access to credit.” Mechai Viravaidya

Ten Great Ways to Crush Creativity

Written by Paul Sloane

How to Create or Destroy a Culture for Creative Thinking and Innovation

Business managers have much more power than they realize. They can patiently create a climate of creativity or they can crush it in a series of subtle comments and responses. Their actions send powerful signals. Their responses to suggestions and ideas are deciphered by staff as encouragement or rejection. If you want to crush creativity in your organization and eliminate all the unnecessary bother of innovation then here are ten steps that are guaranteed to succeed.

1. Criticize

When you hear a new idea criticize it. Show how smart you are by pointing out some of the weaknesses and flaws which will hold it back. The more experienced you are, the easier it is to find fault with other people’s ideas. Decca Records turned down the Beatles, IBM rejected the photocopying idea which launched Xerox, DEC turned down the spreadsheet and various major publishers turned down the first Harry Potter novel. The same thing is happening in most organizations today. New ideas tend to be partly-formed so it is easy to reject them as ‘bad’. They diverge from the narrow focus that we have for the business so we discard them. Furthermore, every time somebody comes to you with an idea which you criticize, it discourages the person from wasting your time with more suggestions. It sends a message that new ideas are not welcome and that anyone who volunteers them is risking criticism or ridicule. This is a sure fire way to crush the creative spirit in your staff.

2. Ban brainstorms

Treat brainstorming as old-fashioned and passé. All that brainstorms do is throw up lots of new ideas that then have to be rejected. If your organization is not holding frequent brainstorm sessions to find creative solutions then you are not wasting time on new ideas. Instead you are sending a message to staff that their input is not required. If people insist on brainstorm meetings then make them long, rambling and unfocused with lots of criticism of radical ideas.

3. Hoard problems

The CEO and senior team should shoulder the responsibility for solving all the company’s major problems. Strategic issues are too complicated and high-level for the ordinary staff. After all, if people at the grassroots knew the strategic challenges the organization faces then they would feel insecure and threatened. Don’t involve staff in serious issues, don’t tell them the big picture and above all don’t challenge them to come up with solutions.

4. Focus on efficiency not innovation

Focus solely on making the current business model work better. If we concentrate on making the current system work better then we will not waste time on looking for different systems. The current business model is the one that you helped develop and it is obviously the best one for the business. After all, if the makers of horse drawn carriages had improved quality they could have stopped automobiles taking their markets. The same principle applied with makers of slide rules, LP records, typewriters and gas lights.

5. Overwork

Establish a culture of long hours and hard work. Encourage the belief that hard work alone will solve the problem. We do not need to find a different way of solving a problem - rather we must just work harder at the old way of doing things. Make sure that the working day has no time for learning, fun, lateral thinking, wild ideas or testing of new initiatives.

6. Adhere to the plan

Plan in great detail and then do not deviate from the plan regardless of circumstances. ‘We cannot try that idea because it is not in the plan and we have no budget for it.’ Keep to the vision that was in the plan and ignore fads like market changes and customer fashions - they will pass.

7. Punish mistakes

If someone tries an entrepreneurial idea that fails then blame and retribution must follow. Reward success and punish failure. That way we will reinforce the existing way of doing things and discourage dangerous experiments.

8. Don’t look outside

We understand our business better than outsiders. After all we have been working in it for years. Other industries are fundamentally different and just because something works there does not mean it will work here. Consultants generally are over-priced and tell you things you could have figured out anyway. We need to find the solutions inside the business by working harder.

9. Promote people like you from within

Promoting from within is a good sign. It helps retain people and they can see a reward for loyalty and hard work. It means we don’t get polluted with heretical ideas from outside. Also if the CEO promotes people like him then he can achieve consistency and succession. It is best to find managers who agree with the CEO and praise him for his acumen and foresight.

10. Don’t waste money on training

Talent cannot be taught. It is it a rare thing possessed by a handful of gifted individuals. So why waste money trying to turn ducks into swans? Hire our kind of people and let them learn our system. Work them hard, keep them focused on our business model and do not allow them to fool around with crazy experiments. Workshops, budgets and time allocated to creativity and innovation are all wasteful extravagances. We know what we need to succeed so let’s just get on with it.

Paul Sloane is the author of The Innovative Leader published by Kogan-Page. He gives talks and workshops on innovation and leadership.

No wonder we are puny

From: aristarchus munish
Subject: Things are Getting Better
To: “Nirvana Cable”
Date: Saturday, August 29, 2009, 6:45 AM

Hello,
GCA’s ATT [Global Community Africa, Alternative Thinking Training] is indeed a journey. Sometime back I saw you wearing a T-Shirt and on it was inscribed the words, “Not all who wander are lost.” Looking back some two-and-one-half-years ago, one would have easily brushed off the ATT concept and the direction we were bound. The destination was uncertain, to say the least. However, if there are still any who doubt the power of ATT, then I bet him/her to accompany us in our work. Nirvana, some of the results we are now getting are far beyond anyone’s imagination.

Kilonzo, Nderitu and I are just from a training in a place called Maungu. We had split the team into two because the trainings were arranged to run concurrently.

The youth in our training had given up on life. This was evident from the sharing they had, with a vast majority confessing they had resorted to drinking to hide away from the harsh realities of life. As this life is addictive, we needed a strategy to deal with this. And yes, we got one. What was readily available was a quick flashback of our own lives right to the point you introduced ATT to us. Personally I remembered how addictive my former lifestyle was and how I managed to put that past in the past. I also realized that, in dealing with such tough situations, one needs to drop (give up) one thing and pick up a new one. You simply can’t drop and move on. You must fill the space created by dropping down something [by filling the space with something to replace what is being dropped].

Sharing the challenges they were facing, they mentioned unemployment, lack of capital, poverty, witchcraft and poor education as some of the impediments to their success. Then Nderitu led them to picking the main problem or identifying the priority. They all shouted, “Of course, poverty is the main problem.” “How do you feel when you think the thought, ‘I am poor?,’ he asked them. One by one they poured out their hearts, “miserable”, “weak”, “devastated”, “a nobody”, “I have no say” and “powerless”. “Up to date, up to now, that’s what has characterized your lives,” he told them, “However, there is good news!” All eyes were wide open, all ears attentive, with everyone curiously waiting to hear this one, good news. And as though this was taking forever, they simultaneously asked, “You mean something can be done to ‘repair’ our lives?” “Yes,” we answered. “How many are willing to live different lives?,” I asked them. Instead of raising their hands, some stood up while others shouted, “Me, me, me,” as though they were competing.

We noted down on a black board all they had said. Then I told them, “That is your past life. I want you to create for yourselves what future you envision for yourselves.” “A satisfying life where I enjoy plenty,” one said and the rest nodded in agreement. Another added, “A life where all live in unity is ideal for me”. One participant who was holding his cheek captured my attention, and I asked him what he was thinking. Shaking his head and referring to the list of how they feel when they think they are poor, he said, “I’m staring at what I have been carrying all along my life. I can’t carry anymore these truth!” ”No wonder we appear skinny, it’s because we are overburdened by these poor thoughts!,” implored another.

Thanking GCA, one youth said that they have realized that “the youth are picking excuses for who they are. Yet they make who they are by carrying such poor thoughts.”

One realization the youth woke up to is that the catalogue of their woes has one seamless thread that binds them: their woes are, to a great extent, man-made and trying to blame unemployment, rain scarcity and leaders, for example, simply won’t do. They all committed to living differently.

* * * * * * * * * * * * * * *

One youth proudly shared what he is witnessing in his community following the training we offered in May. He said now in his community there are over 4 women who have started vegetable farming and set up small shops and over 8 women who have started Mandazi [donuts] baking to sell to the community. All these women were depending on their husbands before our training. When they went back they said, “We can no longer sit and wait for our husbands to provide for us. We must be responsible for our lives and compliment on what is given to us.”

The youth will take us to visit these women after this week’s  programme.

Talk soon.

Munish.

Living the kind of life that I have been having in my thoughts

Ghazi Training
Friday, August 21, 2009 2:33 AM

Hallo,

Hope this mail finds you well.
Yesterday we had a training in one of the farthest ends of Voi Constituency - Ghazi Location. One of the areas’ characteristic is lack of network coverage! A remote area indeed.
The training was again a reminder of what we are called for, who we are and who we must become, always. We explored, through the participants, the challenges the community is facing. Now that’s not new. Perhaps it’s not even unique. However, what remains a constant mirror of reflection of who GCA are and how far we have come, not forgetting what we have to offer, is the manner in which the community earnestly and passionately holds on to the already always listening. This was well played and brought to the fore by the way one woman (middle aged) aggressively implored “do you think there is really a better life than what we have now?” She was referring to her life often characterised by struggle to feed and educate her children, small scale farming which never yields anything and persitent drought. Looking at her face all you would see is hopelessness engulfed in a thick cloud of bitterness and total despair. In all her senses, life was just that way, no matter what happened. This was a painful confession of what a “belief” can do to a potential person. All her expectations were suffering and struggle. And this was the general mood in the training. It was a picture of life in bondage, yet of people who through their belief were comfortable in their uncomfortable states. Uh! this is were the real work lies.
Diagnosing the main “disease” of the participants was somewhat relief to me. Through this I found some strength to stay above the prevailing mood. I felt I was at the best place at the best time, to offer the best remendy. I told all the participants to take a deep breathe. Then I told them that today was the day they would discover the key to unlocking their treaures. Some shook their heads in disbelief. Others laughed. It was clear that no image of plenty or flourishment existed in their minds. After a moment they all looked at me expecting to hear more. “Imagine a life full of abundance, healthy and flourishment.” How will you feel? The entire room was filled with warm smiles and tender laughter. And one by one they started saying “it would be great”, “sweet”, ”full of happiness”, “I would feel important”, “I would share love”, “I would be free”,  among others. At this time there was new and exciting energy. And how do you feel without the thought of abundance? I asked them. “Tired, Bitter, weary, rejected, abandoned, isolated, useless, void, lonely among others”. Then I asked them “if you are to drop any luggage of your life, what would it be?” They all shouted bitterness, rejection, etc. At this point I told them they ahd a choice to make between life of abundance and life of scarcity. Each one of them was excited to choose life of abundant provision and the feeling that comes with it. And I shared with them the law of attraction from the “Secret”. At this juncture, one young man stood and said “it’s true, I have been living the kind of life that I have been having in my thoughts! From today onwards I change my way of thinking. Oh, so my beliefs and thoughts are either my assets or liabilities depending on what I choose!”
The participants requested for more trainings in the area and they pledged to bring more people in the next trainings. They also vowed to share what they had learned with other community members.
“Thank you a lot.” They all told us.
And I must also thank you for leading us into leading the world into creating better worlds for themselves. What a joy.
Warm Regards.
Munish.

Get it real, get it seen, get it done.

Working in Kenya, I’ve gotten real about corruption. It’s a patronage business model. When compared with the capitalist business model, patronage occurs as corruption.

Kenya directly invests money in constituencies through a Community Development Fund (CDF). While giving workshops in Karachuonyo Constituency, I noticed that the majority of CDF projects were unfinished. Viewing this from my investment mindset, I saw egregious abuses of capital.

One day, while looking at the four walls of a long-stalled classroom project, with a flash of clarity, I suddenly saw what the community saw, the patrons had not forgotten their village. Sure, the classroom was unusable, but that wasn’t the point. The four walls represented the village had not been forgotten by its elders [patrons]. Turns out, CDF monies are, in fact, a “Cake Distribution Fund.”

In Kenya, everyone wants to know their elders have included them in the distribution of rents/the sharing of the cake. Given they also know themselves as poor, little fish, they are happy with crumbs. Big Fish [elders] get to eat first. They can have as much as they want. When they are done eating, everyone else shares the leftovers.

Capitalists don’t get it about corruption. We don’t see it for what it is. When we do, we can get development done.